Before this relationship begins, there is no doubt that you should have an open and in-depth conversation with your adult friend. Your conversation should involve whether your views on this relationship are consistent, what kind of plans you have for the development of this relationship, what rules you need to make and abide by, etc. In short, before you really start this relationship, put all the possible situations and things you should pay attention to out. This can increase your satisfaction and happiness in this relationship. It can also help you to properly end this NSA relationship.
No matter how well prepared you are, there may still be something wrong with the relationship. One of the main reasons most likely to cause your relationship to collapse is that one of you wants more than just a simple sexual relationship. He may have fallen in love with you or wanted to develop a stable dating relationship with you. If you just want to keep the relationship at this stage, you should know if your partner wants more. Here are some ways to help you identify.
1. He introduces you to his family
This is the most obvious sign. If he just treats you as a sexual partner, he will only contact you at night or when he wants to have sex, let alone introduce you to his family or friends, because he doesn't want to complicate the relationship. However, when your friend decides to introduce you to an acquaintance, it means that he wants to upgrade the relationship.
2. He began to care about your private life
A normal FWB relationship is not mixed with any emotion. So logically speaking, your friends will not care about your private life. Whether you have a boyfriend or not, who you go out with and so on have nothing to do with him. He just cares about whether you will accept his invitation when he invites you to his house, whether you will arrive on time and so on. However, if your friends are interested in your private life, then you should be careful, because your friends' interest in you is not limited to sex.
3. He takes you out to
Most of the time, your partner will ask to meet at night, or in a private place, because he doesn't want other people to find out about the relationship. Of course, maybe they don't want to admit the relationship either. But you shouldn’t be surprised. It's very normal for a FWB relationship. If your partner calls you all the time and takes you out to play, it means he's serious about the relationship.
