Never have it with friends. Interacting with friends will automatically change the dynamics of friendship. Friends should be like this: just friends. If you hookup with all your friends, who will listen to you talking about your hookups with friend finder?
Never hookup with more than two friends in the same social circle. Otherwise, you will be considered "the guy." "It's not a big deal to jump from one friend's bed to another's. You're just being circulated. Not cool.
Never have it with people who like gossip or who are active in social media. Your sexual life should be private. When all your club members know who you are, how you do it, when you do it, your sexual life will not be good. If you hookup with the gossip queen in town, people will know your penis size, your secrets, whether your mid toe is bigger than your big toe, and how much you like coffee in the morning. Gossip is indeed the lowest form of conversation, so don't be a source of it. People who go out often will reveal your things in a drink conversation. When you walk into the club and choose a different evening pursuer, don't let yourself fall into all the whispers.
If you can't be a master, go to a five-star hotel. Bathroom bars are terrible places. If you go, you may encounter a gossip queen or a popular scene, which violates the hookup rules. Check in at an upscale hotel. You can call room service in the morning.
If you think he will be your boyfriend, then hookup after you fall in love. Mom is right, if you provide milk for free, no one will buy cows. We are all human beings. Men like what they can't get, they are born hunters. Let him work hard for it. If you really like him, then when you have a loyal relationship, lovemaking will become more special.