If you both follow the original plan and just ask for sex from each other, it will be much easier. But if you find that you are gradually falling in love with your adult friend, but before you are sure that he has the same idea as you, you should wait patiently and think about it, and then take the next step. If you're not sure if you're actually in love with your friend, here are a few features that will definitely help.
1. You are eager to see him every day
From the perspective of friendship, even if we don't fall in love with our friends, we will miss them, especially when we haven't met for a long time. To some extent, we are all friends who love us, otherwise, we will not develop into friendship. However, if you find that you don't see your quick flirt relationship one day, or you don't receive a call from him, and you feel very lost, it means that you have gone beyond the boundaries of friendship. At this time, it's up to you to let him know what you think or to suppress it, depending on your ears.
2. Because of your FWB, you canceled your plan to travel with your boyfriend
Maybe in your opinion, there is only friendship and some sexual attraction between you, not emotion. Perhaps, you think what you do is what an ordinary friend should or will do. It's also possible that you don't know whether your behavior is reasonable at all, because you don't have a reference standard. However, if the relationship between you and your friends has seriously affected the normal life of you and your boyfriend, it means that your purely casual relationship has gradually deteriorated. You break up with your boyfriend a lot more than before; because of a phone call from your friend, you cancel your travel plan with your boyfriend. When you do, it means your NSA relationship is starting to get serious.
3. The number of times you communicate with him has increased
Of course, for a normal friendship, you two can communicate normally. However, when you stick your cell phone to your hand all day long, and send or reply messages to your friends, it is beyond the boundaries of friendship. When you're annoyed that he didn't respond to your message in time, it means you've jumped out of the FWB circle.
